vesbian is specifically for Lesbians, not every single variant of sapphic. and you don’t have to use gai to be vesbian either. i hate lgbtq+ wikis bro i swearrrrrrr
wait it gets even worse
the original definition of saphe is also specifically a lesbian term. which yeah i get that’s confusing but the “sapphic” part was literally just added in by the wiki when it’s not a part of the actual term itself
did i mention these wikis are just like. ridiculously unreliable when it comes to getting definitions. they will straight up lie and recoin people’s shit without the coiner’s permission 💀 they neeeeever learn
this is also how we got people thinking vincian is a gay-only term when it’s not and was a replacement for achillean. i hate how much power these shittily-run wikis have over people’s first impression of terms and their history / usage
i think we need a wiki that basically just uses its database to link to coining posts themselves or something, instead of letting random strangers define them. or at least maybe some better moderation to make sure people aren’t just editing the terms to mean something else? it causes so much mislabelling and other bullshit. throwback to that time that aporagender term thing got mislabelled as xenic for months and they refused to fix it (or let the coiner fix it, they literally locked the page because they thought they knew better than the coiner) until a bunch of people threw an actual fit about it online (me included) to get their attention lol
