amatopunk:

my radical behavior is i just don’t state things i don’t think need to be stated. people make so many insane assumptions about others online if you don’t overshare or make a ton of disclaimers, and that’s not… normal. you’re weird as hell if you assume someone liking or reblogging a post from someone means they agree with everything on op’s blog. you’re weird as hell if you stalk someone’s private likes or sideblogs to get whatever bullshit “info” you’re using to justify basically stalking a stranger. that is extremely offputting behavior and mentality and i’m not even entertaining the idea by disclaiming a shit ton of things. like hi welcome to my blog i’m a human being and i put things on here that i like. if you make a shit ton of weird assumptions about me because i didn’t write a ten paragraph list trying to justify my existence and how unproblematic i am? that’s on you. and you’re weird

like idk there’s something nice about just existing however you want online and letting go of the obsession with coming off as picture-perfect to absolutely everyone. i like what i want, i do what i want. i like to ramble about dumb shit, i delete posts ten seconds after making them because i stopped caring, i complain about really dumb shit, i randomly make flags and html code, i start yelling about random music and shit i found out of nowhere. i don’t caaaaaare if it fits the vibe or if i come off as weird anymore. i don’t care if people always like me because i like me. it’s great you should join me and stop worrying so much about if absolutely everyone around you is gonna fuck with it or not. that’s their skill issue not yours