it does kinda suck that there’s such a need for terms that are meant to describe specifically being a nonbinary person who is entirely off the binary, because like, you should generally not assume nonbinary people are still attached in some way to that binary unless they specifically say that, and yet that’s really not the world we live in. nonbinary genders can be independent to themselves just like the binary genders are, and being nonbinary while still being attached to one or both binary genders isn’t because they must be, or because they’re less autonomous gender experiences. and yet people are assumed to either be “more of a guy nonbinary” or “more of a girl nonbinary” or “somewhere in-between” or some kind of relation to it, unless explicitly stated to be autonomous. which sucks. some people don’t even understand or accept the idea of autonomous nonbinary genders like maverique, and that can come from supposedly “pro-nonbinary” people! where is the “there are 75 genders and every time you get mad we add another” energy.