are u transmasc /gen
i “count” as transmasc, but i don’t use that label. i’m multigender, but when i say “i’m transmasc” to people, they usually assume i’m “an afab person who is trans guy-adjacent” when like. noooo. i’m also a girl. and kenochoric. and maybe some other shit. none of those experiences are more in the background or less important to me
i know that’s not ACTUALLY what transmasc means, obviously multigender people and shit are included in the term, but that’s still the impression a lot of people get and it sucks. i always get exclusively he/him’d and grouped in exclusively with guys, even if i add in that i’m nonbinary or multigender after the fact. idk if you could consider that exorsexism, but i can definitely consider it “annoying as fuck”