can someone be both kenochoric and xenogender in a bigender way? like two separate genders and i'm both of them?

well since they’re separate terms in general, yeah of course! it’s kind of like how some people are a gender that’s a mix of man and woman [androgynous?], and some people who experience both of them but as standalone things [like me!] similarly, someone might experience that mixture of kenochoric and xenogender, or you might experience them both as distinct things :3