that post about kenochoric has got me thinking about the fact that it’s just really obvious that not everyone views gender in the same framework and it causes a lot of mutual confusion and frustration from everyone
i think that is ok though. it’s normal in big communities of shared experiences for people to not have the same perspective. i love you autonomous gender umbrellas and i also love you xenogenders. we may not be the same exact experience, and we may not always understand everything about each other, but who gives a shit